Thursday
Tuesday
Steven R. Covey - The Community
Wednesday
Ignorance is Starvation
After giving it some thought though I suppose his view isn't that uncommon but perhaps not so deliberate. People are always creating their own reality. That is what we do we take the world around us and form it to fit our impression of how we feel it should be. Nothing to harmful in that - at first. But people tend to do this with no plan or direction. I found this blog in which the author makes a very compelling arguement about the lack of engagement the average person has about the most obvious factors in thier lives. In this case the Presidetial race.
I have heard some pretty lame reasons for electing the president. Everything from "it's time for change..." to "...I felt she was friendly..". Honestly, I don't think Churchill was chosen for his position because he had nice teeth or looked good on the side of a campaign bus. Likewise I don't think we need to base our votes on how we like a person. We need base our support on the integrity and character of the person. Integrity can be defined as "Doing the right thing because it is the right thing." (Not what the polls say you should do) and character can be defined as "Being who you say you are. All the time."
With that being said; if we as a people chose to ignore the deeper issues and follow the presidential campaign like we do the weather then we will elect someone who is not qualified for the position. We will get what we sow. Satisfaction leads to apathy. Apathy leads to ignorance. Ignorance leads to bondage. Bondage leads to death. Ignorance is starvation of the brain.
I encourage you to engage politically in this country's freedom. nations rise and fall; let's do all we can to keep this one strong. Don't elect a president because of their gender, race or religion. Dig deeper. Do elect them because they will defend your personal agenda or lifestyle. Elect a president that will fight for freedom - at any cost! Be it an tough time for the economy, troops, or religon. They all must sacrificed for freedom.
"Give me liberty or give me death!" - Patrick Henry.
Monday
But I'm not a natural leader...
A leader points the direction
Presenting a vision to a group of people that have none is probably the most difficult part of leadership but yet it is the first step. The ability to do that is what defines you from the rest of the group. It sets you apart as a person with a different direction. Not yet a leader but you now have a defined difference from the group.
A leader doesn’t walk by himself
It was said once said that “If you’re leading and not one is following you; you’re just out for a walk.” If you have a vision of where you’d like to take your situation then you need people to help you get there. Your level of influence upon those around you will mark your level of leadership. People will not follow someone who has no influence upon them.
A leader serves others
Once people believe in you and trust your vision they will follow you. But keeping them on course can quickly become very difficult because it can look a lot like management. Management is not leadership. Management is keeping the home fires lit. Leadership is defining what mountain to conquer next. People will follow you through some very dark time if the believe in YOU more than the vision. They won’t always be able to see the end goal. You will fail at keeping their eyes focused on the goal. After all it isn’t their vision, it is yours! Once you’ve served them a vision, hope, your passion and have seen them as people they will reflect back to you your investment in them and will remain enthused even during hard times.
Friday
Top 5 books I'd recommend this Christmas
1. How to win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie
2. How to Have Confidence and Power in Dealing with People - Les Giblin
3. How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success in Selling - Frank Bettger
4. The Magic of Thinking Big - David J. Schwartz, Ph.D.
5. Personality Plus - Florence Littauer
I don't know about you but after family activities I intend on spending my Christmas curled up on the couch reading.
Wednesday
Huckabee, Women and Servant Leadership
Regardless of your political stand you’ve got to had it to Huckabee; the man stands his ground. It was once said that “To have power and to choose not to exercise it is greater power still.” And Mr. Huckabee, I think, feels he is placing women in this position. A good rebuttal and some history to his stand can be found here.
I think I understand his opponents views about gender based hierarchy. But don’t we all find ourselves in positions of submission by which we have no choice? There are social submission I make daily as a citizen of the United States. Whether or not you agree with gender based hierarchy, it does raise the question; under what circumstances should a hierarchy be based? Submission is a natural part of society and one of the beauties of the human situation, that differentiates itself from the other creatures on the planet, is the ability to lead while submitting to a greater power; even if it is an opposing power.
Monday
Leadership Thinking vs. Everyone Else
Below is comparison of how leaders think compared to everyone else. These are learned thought systems, not some genetic accident that happen to some people. Refelct on this list often and bookmark this page. I'll be adding to it and writing an article on each comparison in the near future. |
Everyone Else | Leaders |
make excuses | no excuses |
focuses on the new | focuses on the timeless |
impatient | patient |
celebrates fame | celebrates ability |
emphasizes information | emphasizes knowledge |
individualistic | communal |
incapable of deep or sustained attention | capable of deep atention |
mediocrity | excellence |
whatever feels good, do it | whatever it takes |
path of least resistance | road less traveled |
fit in with the crowd | rise above the crowd |
wants convience | will do the inconvient |
fntasizes | dreams |
helping self | helping others |
want to "appear" successful | wants to achieve signifigance |
listens to everybody's opinion and advice | seeks a mentor with proven success and results |
national media, television, news, etc. | training materials, tapes, books, meetings, mentors |
focus on excuses | focu on effort |
pamper self | pushes self toward greatness |
looks backward | looks foreward |
knows it all | want to learn it all |
personal cofort | personal influence |
what is the LEAST I can do to get what I want? | what MORE can I do? |
talk a big game | play a big game |
focuses on saving every penny, worried about what they spend | focuses on big residual incomes, and return on investment |
makes their spouses carry an exceptional heavy load | takes personal responsibility |
escapism | contribution |
seeks education | pursues wisdom |
pays the price | enjoys the investment |
slave to their habits | slave to self discipline |
live under the circumstances | it's NOT what happens, it's how you respond |
short term focus | long term vision |
quit when the going gets tough | push harder when tough |
say "can't" | say CAN |
say "maybe" or "I'll try" | say WILL, count on it! |
hide behind "busyness" | build a business |